Louisa

I'm up for a seance. But only if I'm in charge. Louisa.

Or to put their make-up on, eat fried chicken, moisturise amongst other bloody things. I don't blame gentrification, I blame ignorance and lack of respect for others! Louisa.

I bet *Bob* hasn't been on a bus in years. A secret Range Rover driver if ever there was one. Louisa.

Classic. Louisa.

RD, anyone who had a heart would... Wait until at least the second date? ;-) Louisa.

Oooh a kind of Blind Date then? Louisa.

This maggot is gonna get a headache in a minute. Bugger it, where shall we go *Bob*? Louisa.

Not really! Louisa.

Stop patronising me *Bob*. Do you have nothing better to do? Louisa.

*Bob* are you some behind the scenes expert on this forum? How on earth do you know whether one of her many close friends or relatives isn't looking on this forum as we type? And how they be offended by certain comments? That's all I'm pointing out. My comment was, as explained previously, an observation at the poor editing of the picture where Cecil's mane overlaps Cilla's ginger mo of hair. It was not an intentional dig at her nor Cecil. For goodness sakes I shouldn't even be having to explain myself. Louisa.

For all we know one of her relatives could be a member of this forum. We just don't know. You only have to do a quick search on google with the words 'Cilla Black East Dulwich' and this thread title comes top! Louisa.

Death is whatever you want it to be. Shouldn't be any limits on how one persons death is a celebration, another's a deeply sad and traumatic event. Each to their own. But when you are not in any way interested in said person, and are purely posting to mock the circumstances surrounding the media response to said death, that's pointless is it not? We still do not know the outcome to the autopsy on Cilla, maybe it wasn't just old age, maybe a tragic accident? Who knows? But until then at least give the poor family and friends a chance to deal with the grief without all the pointless little attempts at humour! There are lots of people I have not particularly liked, I didn't celebrate their death by going on social media criticising the response of others to their death. It's called having a little dignity and respect. Couldn't you give it a month before you start the whole obituary slating and such like. Some of this stuff is no better than the drivel Katie Hopkins dishes out over Twitter (and for the record I actually quite like her too!). Louisa.

Stop rubbing it in. Louisa.

Consistency in what? I've explained myself, or don't you believe me? As I said, you take things off course to make a martyr of me, and then the original point is lost in translation. Louisa.

An observation of a picture someone else posted? If anything I was mocking the picture and not the intended humour! But why let that get in the way of a good old *Bob* putting Louisa in her place session eh? Louisa.

*Bob* once again you turn the argument on its head to take away from the potential offence caused to grieving families, and bring it back to me. This isn't about me on this occasion. YOU do not decide when YOU can pull people up on things with your 'words of wisdom' and 'sarcastic banter' as a way of defending offence. You defend the right to ridicule and and the right to mock when it suits, but you then also pull me up on my speaking my mind and compare like for like. Two completely different things. Louisa.

Offence takes many forms, but there should be moral boundaries IMO. Especially during periods of grief. Bit of empathy? Is that a dirty word in 2015? Louisa.

If you find yourself attempting to explain why it's 'funny' then it's obviously already 'not funny' and potentially offensive to someone else, no? Louisa.

We are all animals and we all have the same fate. The media will of course report on things excessively during silly season (kids summer holidays), they've always done that. Why do we on here need to make a point about that by sending it up? How about, a few respectful RIP posts in the correct thread and leave it at that. Rather than posting pictures and going off on the tangent (as per) about the excessive coverage of grief. RD I didn't personally find your picture offensive to me as an individual, but if I were close family stumbling across that picture online I think it might hit home a little harder. But hey, who cares, as long as it doesn't affect us lot in any way, fine post it up! Got any other memorable humorous pictures to share? Louisa.

I agree minder, it's crossing a line that doesn't need to be crossed. I'm sick of this modern culture of mocking those no longer here to defend themselves. If you didn't like the person stay schtum and don't say anything, at least in the short term whilst people are grieving. Have a bit of bloody dignity. You wouldn't like if it were one of your loved ones being referred. Louisa.

Think she must have said she was a woman in an earlier post maybe? Louisa.

My first experience of Indian Cuisine wasn't until the late 1970's. I was visiting my aunt who lived in Brockley at the time and she would regularly have us over for dinner. Me and a friend were staying over the night and convinced her we would bring dinner with us. Again, very old school she was horrified when we turned up with this alien cuisine and refused to eat any of it. Was rather funny at the time. Think she ended up having a sandwich! pretty sure the curry house was located on North cross road and closed sometime in the mid 90's. Name escapes me. Louisa.

I'm struggling to see where the lion's mane stops and cilla's hair starts. Louisa.

What lion? Louisa.

I'm so confused. Even if that is the case, why would someone PM them about being Polish? Or why have they felt the need to tell everyone about that? Louisa.