savage

David It really sadens me that you think I blame the cyclist as I don't. Why can't I come onto this forum and admit I almost did something so horrendous and make some suggestions that may or May not prevent an accident happening in the future?

Yes, that junction is nasty, but I did look and didn't see the cyclist. Both the cyclist & myself are lucky that I broke just in time on this occasion. I will definitely be taking more time in the future, but if there is anything the cyclist can do as well to help the driver see than that has got to be a good thing hasn't it? I didn't want to start a debate about who was right or wrong, I just don't want to kill or injure someone, so please if you can wear some hi-Vis clothing and drivers please look really carefully, perhaps we can avoid another death.

Hi Today I almost hit a cyclist in broad daylight when crossing the Barry road/ Underhill road junction. I looked both ways and looked again & I did really did not see the cyclist who was cycling down Barry road until I pulled out and almost went straight into him. Fortunately I saw him at the last minute & applied my breaks, giving both of us quite a scare. I do understand why he swore at me & I apologised profusely through the closed window & we both went on our way. I was quite shaken & I'm sure he was too, I've since been trying to understand how it could have happened. Iam a careful driver, how had I not seen him? Then it hit me. This cyclist was wearing autumnal colours. A muted reddy brown jumper, muted trousers & hat, he simply blended in. There was no high Vis jacket, no lights, no helmet nothing. I have just read about a 6th death on our roads in the last two weeks, this could have been number 7! I will promise to look more carefully, but please can I ask cyclists to help me see you. Please can you wear something that stands out! And if the cyclist I nearly hit does read this, I really am sorry. Kate

West whittering beach is lovely and probably 2 hrs drive from here. I can also recommend this campsite nearby http://www.stubcroft.com/

Sydenham wells was open yesterday

Brockwell park paddling pool is open

Hi Take a loom at a Tinybike, it sounds like what you are after http://www.amazon.co.uk/TinyBike-Tiny-Bike-Balance-Blue/dp/B00665VQJC My son had one from the age of 2 until 3.5. It really s fab and easy for them to learn on as the wheels are so thick. Kate

I have a decathalon balance bike that I'm selling on ebay at the mo if you are interested? It,s suitable from aged 3 not too heavy and has breaks (which comes in handy! Here's my link http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/Btwin-Balance-Bike-/271163338022?pt=UK_Bikes_GL&hash=item3f22982d26

Heber open except nursery

Hi Nunheadmum http://www.livingfrance.org/ We've been here a couple of times and think this may appeal Kate

bluesuperted Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > ryedalema - children:adults ratio sign said 3:1 > but I don't know what ages that referred to... Under 8's

jennyh Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > I lived in streatham 7 years ago so it has prob > changed hugely, I fear I would be more unhelpful! > We found it a bit lifeless when we were there and > lots of places were closing but I think that there > have been some improvements and parts of it are > prob very nice. Streatham common area is supposed > to be nice, streatham hill was supposed to be a > hotspot when I lived there which just seem to mean > it had a couple of nice cafes and few less chicken > shops but sure it has changed since then. Think > the high street is actually pretty decent and > there are quite a lot of shops that would be good > to have on the doorstep. We lived near tooting > bec common which was nice and there is an area > between streatham and tooting that is supposed to > be very nice, some kind of green/regeneration area > if that makes sense, I can't remember what it is > called I'm afraid but a bit of googling might > help. Furzedown? Housing stock is quite nice but I'm not sure how much cheaper it really is. I know they have some excellent primaries but the catchment is small. Iris's close to both Tooting bec & Broadway tube and also on the overground. I know this as my brother lives there, but to be honest he doesn't really like it as it doesn't really have a centre. He spends most of his time across the common in Balham

The Nappy Lady Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Legal Beagle, I have a number for Carolyn who is > the Beaver leader (can't recall her official > title). > > I'm not sure it's OK to give it out, so let me > check with her, and I will either post here or PM > you once I have the OK. > > I'm so much happier with this being a unisex > group, makes much more sense to me than brownies > etc. etc.... > > M Hi I'm interested in this for my son, but can't find any contact information. Do you know if it is ok to just turn up or do we need to contact them beforehand? Thanks Kate

I second this recommendation. Both my boys went to Oaktree and we all loved it. The staff are so wonderful & caring and obviously love their job. I was so sad when each of them left and when I handed in my notice for my last child, Maria also had a little tear! Kate

Have you tried Oaktree nursery on Tell Grove, they have just expanded and one accept younger children for a longer day. Kate

Hi Water play is open at Sydenham wells park for those that are interested. Kate

Oak tree nursery proves morning, afternoon or all sessions. It is on Tell Grove. Both of mine have been through and it is excellent. Kate

I have made that chocolate cake and it was amazing. Another one of my fav's is this vanilla cake. It is beautifully moist http://www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/10860/easy-vanilla-cake Kate

Hi We've need here a few times and really enjoyed it http://www.livingfrance.org/categories.php?Cat=148&PageTitle=La%20Garenne%20Gites. The best bit for us is that it is very family orientated and has a lovely big garden where all gites open onto, so kids all tend to play together. Also owners offer babysitting! Kate

Battersea latchmere allows 3 children per adult. Excellent pool

Another tip, if you fancy ordering a takeaway (they provide menu,s for a huge range) put your order in early, as we had a 90 min wait!

Hi I,m in the lower numbers and my yr1 son goes to Heber, but he did get in in the bulge year. Children in our stretch tend to either get Heber or Goodrich. Kate

Make the replacement sculpture out of a material that has no value as a commodity?

Hi I'm afraid there is nothing you can do to officially suspend parking through the council. Your best option is to speak to your neighbours and explain the problem, perhaps they can help you by parking there cars outside your house the night before / in the morning and then getting them to move them when the removal van turns up. Failing that you can always position your bins in the desired parking area with a notice on explaining why they are there. People are usually pretty understanding in these circumstances as we've all had the issue when moving into the area. Welcome to the area & good luck Kate

He'll be at Heber school fair tomorrow between 12 & 3pm.