Jeremy Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > MM - I was addressing Ridgley's comment more than > I was addressing your OP. > yes I know - I was pointing out that ironically, it took a lot of posts before anyone actually mentioned the issue I was interested in. And I think she has a point, to some extent LinkedIn is not a forum for comments like that - its not really social media, its business media and any message also I believe goes to the persons email address, hence its a very stupid thing to do in that context. I'd suggest that on Facebook you might get away with a bit of flirty banter, to some extent that's part of the package - although her comments have come back to bite her. The age difference makes it a bit of an inappropriate comment in any event.