Well, when we got married we had little dosh to spare. Plus my bigoted/racist father didn't approve of my potential husband and told the remainder of my family that if any of them attended that he would leave. So, we simply booked Brixton Registry Office, took half a day off work and attended with the two legally required witnesses. Then we went back to work. No fuss. No party. No honeymoon. No photos either. If I recall, the whole event cost us ?30! But, getting married is the best/most sensible thing I have ever done in my life. And to be honest, apart from perhaps having no photos, I don't regret going without all the trimmings. Saved us a packet, and prevented us from getting into debt. Do what the hell you fancy! And good luck to the two of you.