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Congrats all! I would def be up for a meet next week with those on mat leave and those with babies - how does Weds 10th or Thursday 11th sound? We could do park or somewhere like the Clockhouse if the weather is rubbish. Franklin and Lola are slowly being introduced to the local establishments! Sally x
Hi all, sorry for radio silence but our son, Bobby turned up 20 mins before his due date. Impressed with his punctuality. We have been dealing with a few breast feeding issues ever since but after a bout of mastitis we now seem to have turned a corner. Nasty business! Up for a picnic meeting if Bobby consents! Don't actually know where the cafe in peckham rye park is but am sure i'll find it. Lou x

Hi lovely ladies,


Congratulations to all the new arrivals! I am delighted to say that nine days after my due date baby Dylan arrived safe and sound on the 4th of July. We came home from the hospital Saturday night and have just been settling in and getting to know each other. Loving every minute of it, although the lack of sleep may become an issue ; ))Haven't ventured far yet but hopefully should be up for a meet up in the next week or two.


Hope everyone is enjoying their new bundles of joy and that the weather isn't making it too uncomfortable for those mums-to-be still waiting.


See you soon

(Irish) Claire X

Hi Ladies,


And a big congratulations to many of you.


On a work front I thought I'd let you all know that my company www.oliveandmoss.com is having a baby clothing sale this Friday July 19th.


Location Volcano Coffee House, Parkhall Trading Estate, 40 Martell Road, West Dulwich. London SE21 8EN. [email protected] 02087613076


Prices start from ?1. So come along and grab some fab baby and childrenswear bargains!


Due date today!


Agh.


Thanks


Nina x

Huge congratulations Claire! Hope you are recovering well.

And Ginny, hope something will happen soon, cant be fun in this heat...


How are all your babies coping in the heat btw? Oscar gets really hot in the buggy so I hardly get out, need to go to lordship lane today to get his passport photo, think I might take the bus instead of walking, hoping it might be cooler...

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