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> I love the insinuation that its the woman's fault for 'breaking up the home'. Nothing to do with a

> married man cheating on his wife then?

>

> *rolls eyes*


To be fair, it's usually the 'other party' that gets such blame, regardless of gender.

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I can't be the only one to get this through my door surely, unless no one on here lives in ED anymore and have all moved to Seaford (zzz). The letter is penned by a friend of the victim. There are two pics of the "homewrecker". A name and address on East Dulwich Grove is given for the homewrecker along with a work place-Dulwich Hamlett FC. The home wrecker is described as a "religeous church woman". The home wrecker had a thing with a married man ("don't worry he has not got away with it"). "its women like this that have given men too many options to lie . . .". ". .and women like this give the church a bad name". (underlined). Then there is a request for "women and those men that agree this is not acceptable behaviour and still believe in the sanctity of . . .marriage please help me humilitate her the way she has my friend and her children". Oh Lordy, I must go to church, and Hamlet FC more often!

Edited to add that after looking at the pics of the homewrecker- I wouldn't!

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Huggers Wrote:

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> This 'friend' is probably the husband. Or even a

> stalker. It sounds thoroughly nasty and

> controlling to me- someone naming and making

> vulnerable a person to complete strangers. I'd

> take something like that straight to the police.



Erm... I wouldn't, I would scan and post on here and let us all take a vote! Go on, you know you want to...

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numbers Wrote:

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> I love the insinuation that its the woman's fault

> for 'breaking up the home'. Nothing to do with a

> married man cheating on his wife then?

>

> *rolls eyes*


Numbers, do you always have to take the lesbian/feminist view of everything????

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