*Bob* Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Of course some parents wouldn't be happy to leave > their nipper unattended in such a situation, but > that doesn't mean those that do are 'asking for > it' or being bad parents! I'm not saying that at all. OK, I agree that citing Bulger was perhaps over-extreme and alarmist. But I get the feeling that being protective of a child in such a scenario is seen by some as a bit odd and pathetic! Your initial, rather sarcastic, comment being a case in point.