I think there's probably a compromise to be struck - on one end asking the pub to turn down the volume after a certain time, making sure doors are not left open, garden not used after 10pm, etc. On your end, looking at things like moving your daughter to the quitest room, considering things like white noise generators, etc. Squirrel, please don't be too offended at what people have posted - there is a precedent of a small number of awkward neighbours making life difficult for boozers, hence people are defensive. IMO you are not being unreasonable. But although the Cherry Tree do sometimes post on here, you really would be better off speaking with them directly.