Sue, I assume you are talking about the exchanges between you and another user because they have flared up recently. To some the exchanges are amusing ("better that EastEnders"), to some that are like rubbernecking a car crash, to me they are a pain in the arse and I do not wish to get involved in personal spats between posters, which despite you saying otherwise is what they are. You have asked me to consider banning the other user, which I have done and I have decided to take no action because it a personal indifference between the two of you. Don't get me wrong, the other user is aware that they have made comments that I don't want on the site and they have apologised. I have no idea if accusations are true or false, I can only go on what I am told and use my judgement, based on my experience of the the forum and the individuals involved. I have lots of experiences with you Sue on which to base my judgements. My advice, keep your issues off the forum.