Calling everyone a wanker is clearly an overreaction. Misogyny and homphobia are very strong words too, and I think the whole thread got out of hand over semantics. But how about this post (my use of bold): Quite clearly equal opps and the likes aint equal... come on if u wanted to b treated the same you would act the same and not try to alienate yourselves by deliberately being different! That's not to say one should not express individualism but ffs lose the pathetic, aggressive attitude AND stop with the assumptions that ppl are against you.