bawdy-nan Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > have you thought about a home birth? Sounds like > your first was a pretty protracted and exhausting > experience so maybe that's not what you would > consider, but I had both of mine at home and, in > terms of privacy and feeling relaxed, it was > great. If a home birth doesn't appeal, you could try to get in with one of the community midwife teams. They come and check you at home so you only transfer in once you are in established labour, so those early stages can be done at home. Worth getting on the waiting lists as people do move house etc and spaces can come up at the last minute!