I think that's very important. Some of the guys in my office are particularly tamed - not allowed to choose their own take away, get in trouble if they are home past 9pm (on their one allowed outing), one guy is spending his birthday watching the Tine Turner show (because his wife wanted to see it on her birthday but didn't, because they went out for dinner).... As a mum, I don't meet as many people as I used to as my social time is spent doing different things and I'm going to bed at the time of day when I used to be getting ready to go out....and getting up when I used to get home.....