I clean myself. And I get everyone on board. My theory is that if everyone experiences what goes into keeping a house clean, then everyone will understand their own impact on how dirty it gets. So, sometimes I'll ask my daughter if she can tidy up the bathroom - she'll usually clean the walls and mirrors etc as well as sorting out all the toiletries etc. I don't actually like cleaning but I don't like it dirty more. I've worked out it only takes five to ten minutes to wash up, so it's not as daunting as I think. Everything has a place and most of it is where it should be most of the time. I believe in storage and no clutter. If it's not, then I'll sort it out. I've sorted out the girls rooms so they are beautiful spaces which they like to keep nice. Don't do it all yourself - that's impossible - because then other people in the house will be as messy as they like with no consequence. It's usually tidy because we keep on top of it - but also don't stress if it's messy - we live in our house - it's not a showroom. God knows where the cups and forks are though (they always disappear)