*Bob* Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Louisa, > You're just not getting it. > > What I'm saying has absolutely nothing to do with > gay men and women. Gay men are always delightful > to women, on account of not being interested in > shagging them. And vice versa. Actually, not true - I have known several bitchy old queens who were absolutely vile to females. I have met and, depending on the person, befriended, hated, tolerated, loved etc etc my fair share of gay men in my time and you cannot sterotype as all; lovely to women, stylish, handsome, clean, etc etc. That is as off as what is going on on the other thread at the moment.