Beautiful asian woman in sainsburys

[davy watts]

I realize this is a shot in the dark, but were you the truly beautiful asian /middle eastern looking lady in sainsburys check out at around 7.50pm on friday? I was the guy at the next check out with dark hair and black t shirts. Our eyes met briefly and I wanted to say hello but I was in the middle of packing my bags.

[lilly123]

deleted because i never wrote this post

[scottcruickshank]

lilly123 wrote "oh well i wish you all the best in finding her, as we all know that they will marry into their own kind" WTF! what is this comment based on?

[sophiesofa]

hopefully lilly123 had had one too many glasses of wine when she wrote that! Good luck Davy

[ontheedge]

scottcruickshank Wrote:

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> lilly123 wrote "oh well i wish you all the best in

> finding her, as we all know that they will marry

> into their own kind" WTF! what is this comment

> based on?

irony i would imagine

[HAL9000]

davy watts Wrote:

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> I realize this is a shot in the dark, but were you

> the truly beautiful asian /middle eastern looking

> lady in sainsburys check out at around 7.50pm on

> friday?

Her name is Latika and she is destined to marry a millionaire - it is written.

[sweetgirl]

you took the words right outta my mouth scottcruickshank!! well said

good luck mr watts;-)

[Jeremy]

Haha... so we have no idea where she's from or what her background is, but because she looks a bit foreign, she is destined to "marry into her own kind"!! At least lilly has deleted the post, which I interpret as some sort of apology.

GOod luck davy - at least nobody has had a go at you for not supporting the local shops!

[macroban]

And all the girls in the neighbourhood

Try to go out with david watts

They try their best but can't succeed

For he is of pure and noble breed

[goose1]

I am flattered but am promised to another, more hirsute man. ;-)

[Sunlover00]

Not all asians look the same so a better description may help with your "search" i.e. what was she wearing, long hair, short hair etc

[lilly123]

i would like to state that the comment that was made was not made by myself,i have had my online bank account hacked, a bill for 739 quid duno what for any way hope fully this is being sorted by the police now this, i am yet to find out yet if there is any think else out there, any way davy why dont you try and go back there again next week at the same time and see if you can see her i wish you every luck in the world, if you do find her it would be nice to keep us informed, good luck.

[matthew123]

I was in Sainsbury's one evening about 2 weeks back and as I packed my bags I looked up and saw an Asian girl walk down the aisle and I must say she was electric - perhaps she was the same woman, I don't know. Nevertheless who ever she was she'll probably be chased by half of East Dulwich and it may be the same girl you saw Davy.

[woofmarkthedog]

Slumdogkennelhillmillionare

I'm loving this concept....

[davy watts]

She had long straight black hair. She also wore glasses, which I think were rimless. She had a white top on and blue jeans. She was slim but had a lovely curvacious derriere

[themaninblack]

hands off. she's mine.

[Beksp]

sounds pretty much like an accurate description of my best friend - however, if it is her she's getting married next summer so, bad luck!

[davy watts]

Just keeping this thread on the radar in case my dream girl happens to read it. In a Hollywood movie I would have abandoned my bag packing and approached her and said something smart and witty. In real life she would have probably thought I was a nutter for abandoning my shopping and sent me packing.....which I would have automitcally done anyway as my shopping still needed to be packed.

[Jeremy]

You should have followed her home and stalked her.

That would be a much better movie.

[Rogue Apostrophe]

I'm still quite disturbed by lilly123's comment. Hacking is commonplace, but do hackers really bother to post inflammatory comments on the forum? Most perplexing!

[Netquest]

So hacking is more acceptable than saying your mind.

Is that what you are saying???????

[Rogue Apostrophe]

I just found the comment highly offensive, then she blamed it on hackers. Which may be true, but it was quite a statement to make nonetheless.

[KidKruger]

most asians I see ie. Indian, Bangladeshi, Pakistani, Sri Lankan, Chinese do actually seem to marry / settle down partners from their own background.

Clearly there are exceptions to this (in my experience mainly within the SE Asian community or 2nd/3rd+ generation descendents of immigrants). Don't turn this into a racist-fest, try to be objective, people on here love to pull the race card, it's a cheap point scorer isn't it.

Is the offence caused by somebody (whether a hacker or not) commenting on this fact / trend ?

What I mean is, if the 'fact' / trend identified is accurate then what exactly was said 'wrongly' ?

The MANNER / TONE it was said ?

[Jeremy]

KidK, it was a combination of the generalisation ("they will"... as if it is a foregone conclusion), and the language/tone ("their own kind").

It is not just offensive to the target, it's also offensive to those of us who do not marry "into our own kind".

If Lilly's hacker has said "hey, good luck davy, but depending on where she's from, there's a good chance she'd prefer a partner from her own background", I don't think there'd have been a problem.

[*Bob*]

"I was hacked".. ha ha

Absolute twaddle.