LadyDeliah

Why not all of the above?

Lol, this is getting quite funny.

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The devil makes work for idle hands, Hugo. I think you need to get a hobby!

Haven't seen many in Liquorice after 11pm.

Lol, how long did it take you to search that Hugo? You are nothing, if not determined!

No, i just get too shit-faced to remember!

*Bob* Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Nothing less hot than banging on about shagging in > a vaguely boastful manner. I quite like banging on about shagging, better than banging on about Waitrose or Marks & Spencers, in my humble opinion. Fills the voids in my uneventful day and gives me hope that I may eventually get to remember what it feels like!

Or strong, dark chocolate!

A bit of smut a day keeps the doctor away :-)

Nothing hotter than a man who can give her what she wants!

I have a wild flower border, but don't think there are any dock leaves.

Sorry, blame it on the sunshine!

I prefer The Archers in the background *Bob* but I get where you are coming from.

Where does this Pedantry live?

and if they did, they are likely to be keeping it to themselves!

Seeing as this debate has deecended to my level, I want to pose a rather delicate question to the good folk of ED. Is giving oral a submissive act? I like to imagine he's worshipping at my fountain when he's doing the honours and I wouldn't dream of submitting first as I am too dominant for that. If he's done a particularly good job, then it would be rude of me not to return the favour, but I always feel like it's a bit of a submissive act, so I have to be pretty pleased with him to do it with gusto. Is it just me, or do others feel that giving oral is submissive?

Lol

Stop being so horrible to the young guy Hugo. I don't think he likened himself to the campaigners against the slave trade. I know I mentioned it to highlight how ridiculous it is to say that just because something is legal doesn't mean one shouldn't campaign against it. No-one is trying to say he is on a par with Wilberforce et al, especially not the OP. He seems to be a very patient, humble sort of person but one who gives a shit about issues of animal welfare and gets off his arse to try toake a difference. Whether you agree with the issues he campaigns against or not, or his methods, there is no need to perform a character assassination on the poor sod.

I usually let some nettles grow in my garden and make nettle tea with the fresh nettles using a cafatiere. You need to use rubber gloves to harvest and chop the nettles up, but it tastes really nice. I'm loving my garden at the moment. I have 2 grapevines with loads of bunches of grapes, my 5 year old apple tree has produced loads of apples for the first time and I have a nectarine tree, about the same age which is weighed down with fruit. I also have cob nut bushes which I planted at the same time as the two trees, and they have produced nuts for the first time this year. I want to put a bit more time into the veg though because I have been a bit slack this year. Got some stuff out but not much. I might make some raised beds and deep fill them with soil for next year, so that it's easier to plant without getting loads of weeds.

One thing to remember about the public sector is that many services such as cleaning and caring have been outsourced to private companies so a large amount of low paid women who would have been included in the figures for public service jobs ten years ago, are now in the private sector.

I'm finding it a strange experience, but I agree with Hugo ;-)

I'm loving it, loving it loving it! Loving it like this.

The Peckham Netto Post Office lets you go to a specific window and jump the queue with Special Deliveries, so was really quick today. I think I'll just go there and leave the poor old Plough Post Office peeps in peace!

Alan, I would get all your concerns down in writing as clearly as possible and let the boss know as soon as you can. What they do with that information is up to them, but at least you will have discharged your duty and covered your back. I had an ex-colleague try to pass off a pretty serious mistake and large overcharge she had made onto me in a place I worked in the past. Luckily I had written my concerns about her actions in an email to my boss before she tried to blame it on me and the client involved confirmed it was her not me, but it could have been very messy. You have no choice but to make sure you don't leave yourself open to criminal or professional charges by someone who may be desperate to push the blame onto someone else.