rendelharris Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Otta Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > Why are we talking about leering? We don't know > if > > the OP has leered at anyone, only that he'd > > "noticed" attractive women in the area. > > > When he describes said women as MILFs, short for > "Moms I'd Like to F**k," and asks them to "hit me > up" I don't think it's unfair to assume he's doing > a bit more than "noticing." Obviously one > person's harmless banter is another's distasteful > and slightly sinister vulgarity - as a former > rugby player and lover of pub chats etc I'm well > up for a bit of bawdiness and robust humour, I > just felt the original post was unfunny and > slightly disturbing, as was his later "I'm a young > adult and love my older women." As you rightly say, it's a matter of individual's take on things. I don't think it was remotely funny, and would be surprised if anyone did. But I'm just not getting the sinister / disturbing thing. I suspect it was a pissed up "joke" that hasn't gone down very well.