P.O.U.S.theWonderCat Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Otta, sneer all you like, but the abuse I've been > dealth with because of lazy stereotypes and > assumptions made by people because of where I work > has been genuinely nasty and upsetting. Snobbery > is lazy, bigotted and repellant no matter who is > the target. Being as I know nothing about you or where you work I won't suggest you grow a backbone. But regarding anything said on this thread, seriously grow a backbone! I don't like to make everything about class, but as much as rah gets wound u[ by it being mentioned (in this case Lou did kind of jump on the back of my post a bit), I get wound up by people becoming defensive and dismissing every suggestion that people who are a bit better off in life may sometimes sneer at those that aren't. It happens, I've witnessed it throughout my life, both as the recipient and as an observer. Aaaaaanyway, a party was had, everyone is still alive, and the music has now stopped. Happy ending.