To me, racism only occurs when there is an imbalance of power, and a likely (probably physical) abuse of that power So calling someone from Pakistan isn't inherently "racist" - but thinking they are inferior, and legitamising that thought and those who would attack them, by sharing the language is racist It's why different terms change meaning over the years - to touch on an earlier point, the term "ethnics" has mutated as those who are uncomfortable with Asians realise they will probably get told-off by "the PC brigade" if they use "paki" so they start to say "ethnics" out loud whilst looking like they are swallowing warm, salty water People don't (for the most part) "want" or "look for" offence - they just have their eyes and ears open, read the stories about racist attacks and know what drives them - then they try and pre-empt that culture is that so bad?