Oh no no no... ignore the books and the other mums REALLY Enjoy your babymoon, regard this as the 4th trimester and gradually adjust to still being sort of stillpregnant only the baby is on the outside (period of adjustment for both of you!) After the 3m is up, you can begin to think about the rest of your lives together. Everything will change at about 4m when the baby's brain development suddenly changes all sleep patterns anyway. Don't worry. Everything is all a phase, and this first few months, more so than any others. Enjoy it, imprint it on your mind, every vomity whingy disorganised messy moment because it is so, so precious.