When our baby was a year old, we went to Greece for 10 days and baby was asleep in her pushchair by 8. We went to restaurants most night and had a lovely, quiet time. By two, this had become more difficult so on our second holiday we ate at home most nights, sometimes ordering from a nearby restaurants.very cosy. Now at nearly three, we go on mark warne holidays, get her to eat first, and let her play with the iPad while we have a quiet dinner! Dunno about other package holidays but this is not a pb at all with mark Warner Both options a and b sound good and you can alternate. Your child will probably come up leaps and bonds - mine always does on holiday. So relax and enjoy!