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I've read that post three times now and don't know where to start. May I suggest that you don't make assumptions and such generalisations on people Jenny, you don't know what colour we are, where we're from, what our sexual preferences are etc etc. Don't tar everyone with the same brush as someone who has rubbed you up the wrong way, you may be pleasantly surprised how nice people in the community actually are.


Just out of curiosity, where are you moving to?


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Jenny Wrote:

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> Keef Wrote:

> >

> > Seriously, I have just seen this thread. Some

> > posts make me laugh, others make me cry.

> >

> > When will everyone stop saying that people from

> ED are all working class, poor people!!!!!! I'm

> from ED, and whilst I'm not a rich man, and couldn't

> give a toss what class I am dumped in to, I'm not signing on!!!!!!!

>

> Jenny Wrote.....

> So Keef.... you a bit of a snob and really believe

> working class means unemployed/'signing on' or

> weren't you thinking when you you wrote this?

>

> We're moving out of East Dulwich because it's

> rammed packed full of people stepping on our feet

> wearing croc (o sh***) footware and making massive

> assumptions about our black friends whom babysit

> for our fair skinned child.


No Jenny I'm not a snob. If you read what I said, I was actually saying I wish people would stop making assumptions! As for your comment about making assumptions about black people.... What the f**k is your problem!?!?!?!? How dare you Jenny? You?ve just made the biggest assumption of all, in pretty much calling me a racist!


I don't believe in class. I couldn't care less if someone thinks I'm working class, and someone else thinks I'm middle class. I think it's all a load of bo!!ocks! What I do think though is that those people who walk around proudly claiming to be working class and sl@gging off the middle class, are just as bad as any self proclaimed middle class person sl@gging off the poor!


You've really f**ked me off there, I wish I could meet you so you could make a real judgement on me without jumping to some bu!!sh!t conclusion that seems to be Keef is a racist snob!


Good luck with your move?. Oh, and there aren?t a lot of shoe shops in Dulwich, so you may find that the footwear that offends you so much is not unique to the area?

Keef Wrote:

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> > Jenny Wrote:

> > --------------------------------------------------

> > -----

>> > > Keef Wrote:

>>> > > >

>>> > > > Seriously, I have just seen this thread. Some

>>> > > > posts make me laugh, others make me cry.

>>> > > >

>>> > > > When will everyone stop saying that people

> > from

>> > > ED are all working class, poor people!!!!!! I'm

>> > > from ED, and whilst I'm not a rich man, and

> > couldn't

>> > > give a toss what class I am dumped in to, I'm

> > not signing on!!!!!!!

>> > >

>> > > Jenny Wrote.....

>> > > So Keef.... you a bit of a snob and really

> > believe

>> > > working class means unemployed/'signing on' or

>> > > weren't you thinking when you you wrote this?

>> > >

>> > > We're moving out of East Dulwich because it's

>> > > rammed packed full of people stepping on our

> > feet

>> > > wearing croc (o sh***) footware and making

> > massive

>> > > assumptions about our black friends whom

> > babysit

>> > > for our fair skinned child.

> >

> > No Jenny I'm not a snob. If you read what I said,

> > I was actually saying I wish people would stop

> > making assumptions! As for your comment about

> > making assumptions about black people.... What the

> > f**k is your problem!?!?!?!? How dare you Jenny?

> > You?ve just made the biggest assumption of all, in

> > pretty much calling me a racist!

> >

> > I don't believe in class. I couldn't care less if

> > someone thinks I'm working class, and someone else

> > thinks I'm middle class. I think it's all a load

> > of bo!!ocks! What I do think though is that those

> > people who walk around proudly claiming to be

> > working class and sl@gging off the middle class,

> > are just as bad as any self proclaimed middle

> > class person sl@gging off the poor!

> >

> > You've really f**ked me off there, I wish I could

> > meet you so you could make a real judgement on me

> > without jumping to some bu!!sh!t conclusion that

> > seems to be Keef is a racist snob!

> >

> > Good luck with your move?. Oh, and there aren?t a

> > lot of shoe shops in Dulwich, so you may find that

> > the footwear that offends you so much is not

> > unique to the area?



Wow! really got to you hey Keef (double E).

Probably best not meet up hey.... get a feeling you may attemp to stab me i the neck with one of your Crocs!

God bless and a hearty laugh!

Mate, whilst that did make me snigger, please don't give this person any sympathy from anyone (scary femanist types particularly!)....


Jenny, can I just say, that yes your post did really get to me, because I couldn't have read it on a worse day, and it was the straw that broke the camel's back so to speak. Normally I would have shrugged it off as a wind up, which is what I actually think you are...


For the record, I don't wear crocs, as I couldn't find my colour... More of a Kickers kind of guy :))

Hehee... well.... you guys have proved my point perfectly. Really hateful comments and playground antics. So thats what EDF is about.... well now we know. After 15 years of living in ED you've taken over and yes I am making assumptions but from your comments it's pretty obvious how those littl' brains of yours operate and what you're about. We'll have to watch ourselves in Swindon, me and my feminist (ha! God your a tit Keef) family.


Happy foruming and thanks for the valuable material guys, it's gold dust.

Seriously Jenny, if you having nothing useful to add.....


As it goes Keef is a born and bred dulwicher from a resolutely working class background, who put himself through university and works in public service contributing a great deal more to this country than I ever will, and is consistently one of the most reasonable, even handed and popular posters on the forum.


You don't seem to have made an awful lot of friends here, just an observation.

I think it's a case of massive chip on shoulder.

Jenny's original post, which came from nowhere, was fantastically vitriolic - something she apparently doesn't like in her neighbour - and she is making some horrendous sweeping generalisations, but others on this forum do that too. In fact I think Jenny made some pretty hateful comments in her original post, which is what she is accusing others of doing.

So my point is, she is an utter hypocrite and obviously really unhappy. Let's leave her alone.


Just off to polish my crocs

Thanks Mockney Piers :)


Jenny and I have shared a PM, and I think some things were perhaps lost in translation through text... It's happened to me before... How about we delete the last page of this thread, or the whole thing, and forget about it.....


I just wish that class couldn't be mentioned on here anymore.... Couldn't the word class be ****'d like if you type f**k? ;-)


Anyway, no hard feelings... Jenny, shake on it.....

Damn, whilst being a schmuck for a happy ending I feel that we have missed out on the last moments of a scintillating melodrama. It's like that brilliant episode of Hancock's Half Hour where the final page of the novel he is reading is ripped out. C'mon guys, I know a PM is a PM but couldn't you just let us have a little sneak at the contents of those private messages between the two of you. We were privvy to the tiff, I mean, I was even taking sides and now its all come to nothing. All that vitriol dissipated by...what, exactly?


On the matter of misunderstandings, Keef claims that much of the disagreement comes from things being Lost in Translation. This happens quite a bit on the Forum. Someone posts but gets their commas and full stops all out of synch and someone reads it wrongly and takes umbrage. Accusation and counter-accusation fly around and then, all is calm as people realise they have rather jumped in, both feet wedged firmly in their mouth. I guess this is just the nature of things when the written word is used in place of the spoken word. Intonation and nuance are difficult when writing: we throw in Smileys, exclaimation marks and the such like, but taking a minute to check that you are saying what you think you are saying, and the other person said what you reckon they said would clear up some of the unnecessary spats.


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