I do love Christmas but focus on the food and drinks for gatherings.    As for gifts, over my many, many years I've established a reputation among those I hold dear.  I buy them a gift (or even two) over the year when I come across something I know they will love.  I believe it far better to free myself to purchase something whenever and wherever I find something I just know will suit.  It beats being forced to buy something, anything, just to meet a deadline.    So dear Forumites...get on my good list*!  I'm terribly generous.    *Chav dear, you know you are already there