There is always this argument. Say you are in the pub and there is a group of people chatting. They all have different views on a topic which are generating discussion and controversy. You feel that you have some valuable input and want to put a word in. You can: 1 ? Pipe up saying that they are all a bunch of idiots, you know better and further more you don?t like the way any of them are dressed or the accents they speak with. 2 ? Say, ?Hello, excuse me but have you thought of it this way?? Which do you think is going to get the better reaction? Personally I think that option 1 is a lot more fun but don?t go crying to mommy if you aren?t up for the fight you started.