I'm the only person I know who has never had a mobile phone. I'm genuinely not passing judgement, and all the above sound sensible if you do decide to go for one, i.e. A brick and at secondary school. Also if it's pay as you go and you only agree to top it up once a month etc it could curb usage. But if you are still unsure, just ask yourself how you coped when you were at secondary school without one? That's all of you right? What did you do to cope? Can't your kids do the same? Having said that we don't want our kids to be stigmatised for being the odd one out or unable to join in group discussions remotely. Alternatively, I've heard of houses having a box beside the front door and as you come in you all drop your phones in there and the house is phone free. I think that's a great idea too. This one is good for modelling the true purpose of a phone and the true purpose of a family home. I.e. Stay in Touch when you are out of touch and communicate better when you are together. I suppose an inventive teen would then decide to leave the house to use their phone but an extra walk around the block might do some good anyway.