Keef Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Don't go back, never, or at least very rarely, works! There is a reason you split. Just to expand (wrote that on my mobile whilst on the bus). I once went back to a long term girlfriend, knowing full well how bad we were together, but trying to convince myself it would all be great second time round... After an initial couple of great weeks, it was as bad as ever, and we had to have another horrible break up. When I first met Mrs Keef, she was considering going back to a long term ex. I told her the above story, and advised against it (okay, so I was looing out for myself a bit). She did however go back, and sure enough, after a short time, everything was just as it had always been. Having said all that, I used to work with a lovely lady in Liverpool who had divorced her husband, and they'd sold their house and everything. A couple of years later they bumped in t each other, and ended up getting married a second time, and were very very happy... Good story, but I suspect more rare.